HomeSchooling 101: When Words Hurt

February 18,2017

11:26am

The breakfast is not totally cleared from our wooden dining table.

Yesterday’s bags and activities are visible from one of the sofa and the bench.

My plants are awaiting my attention.

My bed is still unkempt same with the kid’s.

My first laundry for the day is impatiently beckoning to me.

Mayo is near my foot while I took a breather to check my email momentarily.

Ruel and the girls are in Radisson Blu for Lilli’s ballet.

I noticed a message that led me to Joy again.

A few days ago, an acquaintance introduced her to me through a scary story.

I looked her up again the following day. Very briefly.

I marveled and praise God for her resilience over a traumatic event in her life.

Now, she is being reintroduced to me again through this email message regarding a Middle

East Homeschooling conference to be held in Dubai.

Their name caught my attention.

It turns out to be the same Joy’s story that was brought to my awareness just the other day.

Now, I am able to check out her blog.

I just read her entry of February 1 about hurtful words and how to choose our words and timing wisely and to edify and not to cause death.

Whew!

What a powerful thought.

Hopefully, after today, I will resurrect my blogging pursuits one more time and continue reaping the joy I get out of it, not for that alone, but to continue keeping my goals focused on the more important priorities I need to  tackle more than anything else that try to compete for my time and energy.

Yesterday was packed and I praise and thank God for the opportunity to do what I needed to do.

Home Schooling 101: What makes you come alive?

January 4,2016

11:23am

This will have to be short and snappy.

My daughter Marina just told me what I wanted to hear after 4 days being so immersed in the Qatar Exxon Mobil Open. Hurrah!

Watching players close hand. Taking photos with Stepanek in the steps while he was waiting for us to lift the chain for him and his girlfriend to pass to go to the bleachers.

Marina and I got the chance to read Vasek Pospisil’s biography and I marveled at the journey it takes to conquer challenges while attaining one’s goals in life.

I will write more in depth as soon as my duty is done by tomorrow.

All I know, watching the game makes me feel so alive!

Home Schooling 101: Work Ethic VS Insatiable Wants

Jan.3, 2017

8:40am

What a wonderful day yesterday!

95% of the targets were accomplished and most important of all, the grace and the opportunity to be  child like with my children.

Marina was so excited to show me photos of  her with several tennis celebrities.

Marcelina kept saying, “ Mama, I so miss you.”

She understood that Mom had to go back to work and  Mom has to clock in attendance.

She saw me do what I needed to do even if I was bone tired coming home .

Marina was a bit challenged in this department that I had to remind her that Mama still has more chores to do before calling it a night.

Here is a very nice video about it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5avVsKjNyo

Home Schooling 101: Bring your kids to work day!

January 2,2016

9:58am

Today, Marina wants to come along with me to the  Qatar Exxon Mobile Open. She is excited to spot Tennis personalities and stars.

I hope that we will meet some contacts I have established for her to be able to see what a Ball Kid does and be excited and eager to sign up as well for the next tournament.

The gift and the grace to do an honest  day of work is something wonderful to pass on to them at this point.

This is  where we need to be and we shall stop trying to be where we think we should be and enjoy the moment.

I asked her yesterday to draw up her plans for the new year , month to month and we shall align them to mine.

I am so happy and grateful that all the requests I had for them were accomplished for New Year’s eve preparations.

Traditional 12 fruit basket.

Red ribbon grapes on each door arch.

Marina cooked Bibingka in muffin pans.

Ruel and Marcelina enjoyed making the Palitaw.

I am off now to prepare for my 3^rd official day with the tennis open. I hope I can get a photo with Novac and  Murray.

Yes, here we go!

 "Every job is a SELF PORTRAIT of the person who does it. Autograph your work with EXCELLENCE."

Home Schooling 101: A Social Experiment

Joyful January 1,2017

9:37am

It is the first day of the brand New Year 2017.

I am so grateful for this quiet time with my thoughts.

The washing machine is merrily humming away.

My youngest is on the sofa drinking her first bottle of milk.

My eldest does not like to get up yet despite my gentle prodings.

We woke up at 12 midnight to greet the New Year with a prayer and some spaghetti and grapes and longgan.

Today will be a holiday for them.

Today will be a 2^nd working day for me.

After 3  years attempting to, I have finally signed up to assist in the Qatar Tennis Open. I handle the chains to the Section A audience bleachers in Court 1.

After so many years of not having a job outside the house, I finally am experiencing a 6 day occasional job.

Hurrah!

I have diluted and sifted  several reasons why I want to do this.

One of which is this: Children sometimes do not learn from verbal sermons and instructions and preachings and naggings…They have to see you model them.

Perhaps, you can say, it is a social experiment for me to learn from and show my children that no matter how lowly or simple a task or a job you are given…how are you going to value and do it?

I believe that there is no lowly or lofty job.

A CEO is no different to the cleaning lady in the restrooms.

So, how do we really treat them or view them?

Friends, today is the first day of the year. We don’t know what lies ahead. But one thing I know for sure — God wants you to climb your mountain.

       He wants you to keep on growing, to be wiser, to be more loving, to be better, and to be even more blessed.(B. Sanchez)

Home Schooling 101: A Perfect Day

Dec.8,2016

7:38am

What is a perfect Home Schooling Day for us?

It would of course, start the night before when goals are set. Then,  starting the day with a prayer after the basic things are done.

Bathroom. Fixing of the bed and room.

One hour of chores while I prepare a hasty or deliberately special breakfast. Usually, it is  bread or crackers and spread.  Their favorite is peanut butter and jelly sandwich or  Nutella on Skyflake’s crackers.

Then we listen to the gospel readings for the day.

Then we do some worship songs and sometimes some wake up danceable tunes.

Then, while I am in the kitchen preparing for 2 meals ( hopefully) the girls start their seat work lessons. The target for the little one is 2 hours per day then lots of play time/ entertainment.

Our top favorite are Barney and Friends, Tea Time with Tayla and Peppa Pig.

Another option are the following for the 2 girls together or individually:

They have  one hour time with Joseph Hoffman on youtube for their piano lessons.

BBC  Learning Spanish.

Learning Arabic with Maya.

Katie Hill voice lessons.

Ruel comes home at 1:30pm  and that is the time we have lunch.

3pm is  Divine Mercy 3 o’clock prayer time with the chaplet.  Then more seatwork lessons until 6pm.

Marina should be clocking in 5-6 hours of home school time with one hour or more seat down sessions with me for quizzes and reviews.

Another one hour or so with her dad for her  Saxon Math 7 and her SAT reviewer.

We observe the Angelus at 12 noon and 6 pm and then Rosary time is before bedtime around 9 or 10 in the evening.

No TV time is the general rule for weekdays which runs from Sunday to Thursday.

We have movies on  Friday  or Saturday evening on the television depending on the load of activities for our weekend.

Thus, a perfect day for us would be a balance of  chores, prayer, academics and the music, arts ,games/dancing /exercise and  entertainment and rest while we attempt to achieve our targets.

Homeschooling 101: Life is a picnic in the park

Dec.7,2016

9:02am

Last Monday, Dec.5 saw us at the Aspire Park for a closing Picnic with the Doha Home Educators parents and kids.

I’d say, we were all in all approximately a group of 60-70 heads.

It was such a lovely day with a cool weather..the sun was not biting at all.

The green grass was so lovely and the sky so blue.

Picture perfect.

Marina had a chance to bond with some new found friends and strolled to a nearby bridge and had photos with them. She has been reminding me to ask one mom for copies. She told me also about a newcomer to the group who is Irish. She was so amused by the young lady’s accent.

My little one surprised me by her self confidence level. She went to the playground herself in search for her sister.

I had to remind her though not to do that without telling me…since I was busy chatting and did not realize she strolled away…anyway, it was a nice feeling for me to see her walking back from the playground after I realized  around 2 minutes that she was not around.

She also claimed her certificate of attendance under the big tent when her name was called without need for encouragement. Her big sister was beaming with pride and happiness too seeing her do this.

They are so looking forward to the spring Co-op next year.

Hope it does not run conflict with our March 2017 plans.

Hopefully, no more flu bouts that cost us 2 sessions.

Ending this blog with some photos and some thoughts on how to teach our kids to have  a good sense of self and yet truly humble in the face of adversity or rejection.

“Life on earth has this mark; it cannot be without burden. This is normal. Faith brings no illusion of a life without consequences and demands. Being open to the imperfections of human nature — being subject to time; being limited by space; being affected by human emotions and relations; becoming vulnerable to pain and sickness.

Let us make (our kids) them experience our presence and concern. Let us share with them the gift of our time and attention, and the gift of our active listening and understanding.”

Thus, although life is not always a nice walk in the park, we can still make the best of the situation by having a smile in the heart knowing we are loved and accepted as we are no matter what.